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Nilai tukar rupiah cenderung menguat sepanjang Desember dan bertengger di kisaran Rp 13.900 per dolar Amerika Serikat (AS) dalam hampir dua pekan ini. Penguatan rupiah diprediksi masih akan berlanjut ke tahun depan.
Berdasarkan data Bloomberg, posisi rupiah pada perdagangan Jumat ini tidak banyak berubah dari posisi penutupan kemarin. Rupiah dibuka melemah tipis, namun kemudian berbalik menguat. Saat berita ini ditulis, rupiah tercatat berada di level 13.955 per dolar AS, menguat 0,01% dari posisi penutupan kemarin yang di level 13.957 per dolar AS.
Dengan perkembangan ini, maka rupiah telah menguat lebih dari 1% sepanjang Desember. Direktur Riset Center Of Reform on Economics Piter Abdullah Redjalam mengatakan rupiah memang dalam kondisi yang stabil dan cenderung menguat sepanjang 2019, didukung oleh aliran dana asing yang positif.
Artikel ini telah tayang di Katadata.co.id dengan judul "Kurs Rupiah Stabil di Kisaran 13.900/US$, Penguatan Diramal Berlanjut" , https://katadata.co.id/berita/2019/12/27/kurs-rupiah-stabil-di-kisaran-13900us-penguatan-diramal-berlanjut
Penulis: Martha Ruth Thertina
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Hello /indonesia,
I just came back from Japan 3 days ago. I was visiting my wife's family and also went on vacation a bit. That was probably my 5th time visiting Japan. As a foreigner, Every time I visit Japan, I can't help but to think about the differences between Japan, Indonesia, and USA (my current residence).
Inspired by this post https://www.reddit.com/indonesia/comments/z1l9my/if_you_have_the_chance_to_live_in_usa_would_you/ and WhyHowForWhat response, I thought I'd share my thoughts.
I will try to respond to all the comments, but my timezone is EST so I won't be able to respond right away.
I think it is important to tell a little bit about me, so you know where I am coming from: - Born in Jakarta, went to BiNus (industrial engineering), Chindo middle class. - I went to Tirtamarta BPK Penabur, from junior high to senior high. They said it was a rich kids school. It was true, but mostly due to its location (Pondok Indah). But for the most part, I am middle class. - I lived in Jakarta for the first 23rd year of my life. - I won a US green card lottery, currently reside in NYC, for almost 12 years by now. During this time in the US, I got 2 other degrees (theology and computer science). - I live in NYC, work as a software engineer in Wall Street. - I got married to a Japanese woman. She works as an operational manager in a Japanese bank in Tokyo, Nihonbashi for 10 years. According to my other friend, this is a position with good salary in Japan, evidenced by the fact that she got transferred to NYC and that's where we met. Her parents own a grocery store in Ibaraki, and her grandparents own a rice farm in Sado (already retired). - During my stay in Japan, I only visited mostly Tokyo, Ibaraki and Sado. I visited Hakone, Kyoto, etc but for tourism only. - I have an Indo friend that currently live in Japan. He studied in Japan, got married to a Japanese woman, currently worked in a car factory. Unfortunately, his salary isn't that high. - Other than Indonesia, US, and Japan, I lived in Singapore for 3 months. - Most of my opinion regarding USA is based on my observation here, and social media, so it might be skewed. - Most of my opinion regarding Japan is based on my observation of my wife, my wife's work culture, my wife's colleagues, and stories from that Indo friend in Japan. - I am a Christian, so I lean centrist conservative and libertarian
The opinion here is mostly anecdotal, looked more like a brain dump, a lot of generalization, and based on my own lens through my own socio-economic/race/political factor. Take it with a grain of salt.
I welcome fact checks. This is especially important for me because I am contemplating as well on where I should actually live and retire. More information is always good. Sorry to write this in English, but it is easier for me. If you have questions and want me to respond in Indonesian write it in the comments.
If I have to describe USA with words I think it will be personal responsibility and individual freedom, for Japan, it will be the nail that sticks out need to be hammered down. If you are confused why USA or Japan behave so and so, try to see it from that angle, and it will make sense most (not always) of the time.
US is the land of wide variance, to the extreme. Wide variance in income, wide variance in educations and skills, wide variance in beliefs, opinions, etc. Diversity contributes a lot to these.
For example, let's say on the topic of abortion. Left-leaning people will wonder why we in the US says pro-life but doesn't care so much about starving children and abandoned children. The children, due to bad socio-economic factor, could grow up to be criminals in society. If we look from the angle of personal responsibility and individual freedom, the reasoning makes sense. US believes that a chance to live is sacred, and very rare, exceedingly rare in this universe. We shouldn't prevent someone from being born into this world, thus potentially realize his/her potential to be great. On the other hand, once an individual is born, in US soil, we believe that it is up to that individual, regardless of their circumstances, rich or poor, starving or not, to eventually do good or bad. With doing good comes reward, and with doing bad, comes punishment. Other issues like mask, lockdown, vaccines, can be seen from the same light.
Contrasted to Japan. For example regarding mask and lockdown. Even when Japanese people themselves individually might object, they generally don't make that known. Only a select few make their opinion known in public (or anonymously on social media like Twitter. Japanese people love Twitter, because they can express themselves freely and anonymously). The nail that sticks out need to be hammered down.
What about Indonesia? I don't know what to describe Indonesia with words. Let me know what you think. But I do think Indonesia is like a mini USA. Indonesia is diverse, but USA is probably 100x more diverse than Indonesia.
Lets start from light hearted topic first, then more serious ones:

• Food
  
  • USA (NYC)
  • Lots of food here, from everywhere around the world. From Mexican to Indonesian to Nepali to African, you can find it here. Do not go to fancy restaurants in Manhattan (where white people go) because those are usually overpriced. Instead, go to the areas where immigrants live and eat, for example, Queens, you can find cheaper price there. You can find halal food, you can find kosher food or vegan food easily. Maybe not so much in the suburb/rural areas.
  • The quality I'd say, not that great, not bad, just okay. I think it has to do with the water, or ingredients that aren't that fresh, or maybe just limited selection of people (the better chefs are in their home country not in the USA). I have this conspiracy theory that NYC restaurants actually know how to make good food with affordable price but collectively together decided not to, because we eat it anyway.
  • Japan (everywhere)
  • No question here, absolutely fantastic. Even food sold at convenience stores. Cheap, fresh, very good quality. Heaven on Earth basically. Although you do get bored if you eat Japanese food all the time. I've tasted some Italian and Spanish food in a casual restaurant in Japan, and although it tasted ok, NYC version tasted better.
  • Indonesia
  • Cheap, delicious, although maybe not healthy. Who cares, the experience is what matters. Malam2 bisa naik motor tanpa helm ke tenda nasgonasi uduk, tinggal pesen, pake teh botol, udah enak. Siang2 liat siomay/batagor di pinggir jalan, stop motor, pesen, langsung makan, enak. Pengalaman kyk gini cuma ada di Indonesia.
• Land
  
  • USA
  • USA is a beautiful land, truly beautiful geography. Lots of very big rivers. USA became superpower in its early days because of its geographical location, rich natural resources, hard to penetrate natural barriers that give protection from its enemies, massive rivers that made it easy to transport goods and civilization building. I wished I had more time to go around US natural parks. Generally accessible with cars.
  • Japan
  • Beautiful, stunning land, everywhere even in big cities, you don't see much skyscrapers in Japan's cities so you can see clear blue sky and mountains/hills everywhere. Accessible by public transportation almost everywhere, you don't need a car.
  • Indonesia
  • I think Indo has beautiful land, but mostly on the wilder side of things. Indo also doesn't have 4 seasons so you don't see red/orange leaves during the Fall season like Japan/US.
• Culture
  
  • USA
  • Diverse population brings rich history and culture. You can see Amish culture, Southern Jazz culture, etc. Gak ada yang habis dilihat. Every summer, there are always random parade in NYC from who knows what.
  • Japan
  • Rich history and culture as well, although it is strictly Japanese. I think if you live in Japan, you won't see that big of a difference between one area to another. The wow/surprise factor is less than USA.
  • Indonesia
  • Although Indonesia is diverse and has rich culture, I think Indonesians don't enjoy or value our culture as much. We take it for granted. Or is it also because we Indonesians aren't encouraged to travel and enjoy our culture. Maybe we only think about work because travelling cost a lot of money lol. Hidup udah sulit jangan buang buang uang. I definitely appreciate Indonesian culture more now.
• Cleanliness/Noise
  
  • USA
  • Depends on the area I think. Suburbs are mostly clean, cities are mostly dirty. NYC is dirty as hell. Rats everywhere, trash everywhere, when it snows it gets brown and disgusting quickly. Subways are dirty, homeless like to sleep, pee, and poop in the subway (I had the unfortunate luxury to witness several instances of these with my own eyes, and nose). Super noisy. Police sirens, cars honking, fire dept sirens are frequent occurrences here. Subway tracks shake so much and makes a lot of noise. During summer, crowded places with lots of food like Chinatown and Ktown smell like the bury dead people in the sewer.
  • Here people love to talk, loudly, even in the subway. Sometimes you see people fight on the street, verbally or physically.
  • Toilets here use paper towel. I can't get used to this despite being here for more than a decade.
  • Japan
  • Garbage? what is that? Japan is really clean. There are very few garbage even in big cities, also mostly don't smell. People here don't talk outside and don't talk in the subway. Even in busy crossings it is relatively quiet.
  • Toilet has warmed seating, automatic bidet.
  • Indonesia
  • Pretty much like NYC lol, but at least we use bidet not toilet paper.
• Safety
  
  • USA
  • Depends on the area, suburbs are mostly safe, rural areas not so much. In rural areas you actually need a gun because the criminals have guns and average police response time is 15 mins or more. In the cities, it depends on socio-economic factor (which mostly, divided by race). White neighborhoods are mostly safe. Asian neighborhoods, although not as clean, not as expensive, but still mostly safe. Police are generally everywhere in bad areas.
  • Sometimes there are gang fights, people got shot di hari siang bolong, di subway. School shootings, gang shootings, or just shootings in general is a real concern here.
  • Lots of homeless, lots of drug addicts, lots of mentally ill people.
  • Japan
  • Little kids can use the subway by themselves. Women can pass out on the street and no one would touch them. You can leave your bag on the street and you won't lose anything.
  • Indonesia
  • Same like USA, but at least the criminals here don't have guns.
• Technology/Infrastructure/Gadgets
  
  • USA
  • Pretty modern. Government services have quick turnaround. Airports screenings are automated. Tap water in big cities are drinkable. There are public transportations but only in big cities. Public transportations are pretty decent, although not that clean, not that on time, and sometimes not that reliable. Internet/Cellular coverage are everywhere, pretty fast bandwidth as well.
  • It is really easy to buy high end gadgets here, even used ones. Americans are the world's biggest consumers. Every country, every company, wants to sell their items here. I can buy any gadgets. I can buy the best acoustic/electric guitar easily. I can buy the best aquascape gadgets. The best PC gaming gadgets, custom keyboards, robots, drones, etc. I can order stuffs from Amazon. If something breaks, I can return it easily.
  • There are a lot of American made items. Generally US made items are really good quality. I have one US made acoustic guitar, 1 US custom made electric guitar, American made boots, belts, bags, etc.
  • Japan
  • Looks like it is more modern than USA in some aspect, but more backward than USA in some aspect (like how they still use fax machines, and floppy disks lol). The public transportation is really clean, really reliable and on time down to the minute, and you can go anywhere, really, with public transportation. Gadgets are easily found as well, with reasonable quality (Japanese quality). US made ones are bit harder to find here.
  • Indonesia
  • Kalo ga mati lampu tiap petir udah untung. So hard to find good gadgets, so even if yo have money sometimes it is useless. If you found the gadgets often are expensive, without warranty, with long shipping, etc. Banyak barang bekas Amrik/Jepang yang dilempar ke Indonesia, contohnya elektronik bekas. Thankfully now even Apple has somewhat official store in Indonesia, unlike a few years ago.
• Education
  
  • USA
    • I think public school here is terrible. Public college usually less terrible, not bad, not that good, just okay. When I was a teaching assistant in the Computer Science department, I was absolutely surprised at how much these kids don't know basic math. Like, how did you graduate high school without knowing how to divide and multiply? Seriously, how??? There are good public schools of course, but rare, and school is zoned based on your home address. So you can't just send your kids to a public school of your choice. Plenty of parents (usually white and asian parents) buy houses/apartments in a good school district, because they do not want their kids to get bad influences from other kids from a bad public school in a bad area. Public schools are taxpayer funded, so it is free (as in, taxes paid for it).
    • I'd say, Indonesia's private school is way way way way way way better than USA public school.
    • Private schools here are expensive, and you pay out of your own pocket. It can cost at minimum $15k/student/year. Ironically, I heard from my teacher friends, that teacher's wage in public schools are higher, I don't know why.
    • Home-schooling kids aren't uncommon here due to the cost above. Parents who are more affluent, educated, but don't want to pay for expensive private schools, and don't want their kids to be influenced by whatever curriculum public school has (for example, Christian/Catholic/Muslim parents don't want LGBTQ ideology to be taught to their kids), prefer to home-school their kids.
    • Wide variance of school curriculum here. Remember, USA is the land wide variance, the land of extremity. A school (especially high school) can make or break your kids future. Thankfully not as much for college, but this probably depends on the major. I.e, if you major in Computer Science or Accounting, you can generally get good jobs even if you graduated from a no name school. If you want to be a lawyer or doctor, you'd need the expensive schools (for name brand and for connection).
    • US private college/university, the good ones are really good, if not the best, in the world.
    • One good thing about US education is that the students are taught to think, even from an early age. Small kids here are encouraged to speak up, like "Hey Timmy, please tell us about your vacation last week". At school we are encouraged to think rather than to memorize, like "What do you think about X? Why so and so? Can you think why that is not the case? Can you make an opposing argument?". In Asia we don't do this as much.
    • The downside of this habit is that you'd find US educated people are more talkative, even when they have nothing to contribute to the conversation. But I don't mind this. More communication is generally better.
  • Japan
  • I think Japan's education, up to high school, is generally good, better than Indonesia. It also doesn't matter which high school a kid goes to, because the difference in education quality isn't that big like in the USA. I do think for college (we use college and university interchangeably, they are the same), US private colleges are better than Japan's. Based on what I heard from my friend and my wife, Japanese people study really really hard to get into university, and after that they can coast and be braindead all the time, and they will graduate automatically, and after that, there will be employment lining up for them.
  • The difference between education quality of expensive private college and public is not as bad, as opposed to USA. Japan is a country where the average is good. Japan is a country where being average is optimized.
  • Indonesia
  • I went to a private high school in Indonesia, and can only comment about that. I don't know about Indonesia's public school. I do know that Indonesia's universitas negeri usually are more prestigious/better curriculum than swasta ones (CMIIW if this is not true anymore today).
  • I think in regard of speaking up and thinking, Indonesia's universities are probably better than Japan's. I find average Indonesians are way more motivated, more ambitious than average Japanese. Makes sense, we need to finish skripsi to graduate, we need to study to get good grades, we need to actually compete out there and find a job using our own effort. Nothing is guaranteed.
  • Lastly, I find no difference between Indonesian's intellect vs Japanese vs US. There are stupid people and smart people everywhere. I've seen very smart Indonesian engineers, and I've seen very dumb Ivy League graduates during my time teaching at a programming bootcamp. I've seen dumb Japanese engineers as well. For ambitiousness, I rank Americans first, Indonesians second, Japanese third.
• Economy/Jobs/Regulations/Labor Law/Retirement/Healthcare/Social Support Systems/Child Care/Real Estate
  
  • USA
  • The jobs here are plentiful, and higher paid than other countries counterpart. Higher paid than EU. For example, average FAANG software engineer can make USD 250k/year, while the EU counterpart probably only make USD 100k/year. The downside though, US labor protection laws are weaker than EU, weaker than Japan. US is an employment at will policy. Meaning, you can quit anytime you want, and your company can terminate your employment for any reason (other than sex/race/ethnic discrimination). Don't forget that healthcare benefits are tied to full time employment.
  • Salary variance between jobs, and between regular employees vs executives are also big. Land of extremities. It is not uncommon to have C suite executes make 100 times an employee.
  • USA's work culture varies between industries. I only know tech. In US tech industry, we only care about hard skills, not credentials. For other industry like law probably care a lot about credentials. Also your idea is valued, and if it is more valuable than your seniors, you will be rewarded as such. Seniority doesn't matter as much here. The one with the ideas and execution, those are the ones that will be rewarded. Promotion is not automatic, you need to seek it. You need to negotiate your own salary, present multiple competing offers, and negotiate every year, otherwise you are leaving money on the table. You can get higher salary than your manager if you are a really high performer. We work on the clock. When it is time to go home, we go home. We prefer productivity daripada setor muka.
  • US has unemployment benefits, but very little, and you need to report every few months or so to report on your progress of finding a job. US only has 3 months paid maternal leave. Good luck if you are pregnant lol.
  • Health care in the US is very expensive, and it also doesn't cover that much. Healthcare is tied to your full time employment. If you are out of work, or you just work part time, you won't have health insurance, and you would need to pay your own health insurance (which can cost double than what an employer gives you), and generally lower quality, high deductible, and don't cover much. If you happen to get sick, terribly sick without a health insurance, seems it is game over. A lot of employers actually only want to employ people part time so that they don't have to pay for health insurance.
  • Childcare is insanely expensive. In big cities like NYC it costs like USD 1500/month/kids. Plenty of people actually ask their retired parents to care for their children. Plenty of people quit their day job and homeschool their kids for this reason as well.
  • USA has social security fund, which I think we know it will run out around year 2030 due to expanding debt, shrinking working population, and declining of birth rate. If you want to retire decently (not comfortably), in the USA you would need to have at least $1.5M in your assets, in today's money.
  • If you want to stay in a dense expensive city, then housing cost is extremely expensive. A 2 bedroom in NYC can cost $1M. If you want to rent, a studio costs $1500/month. If you want to go to suburb, the price is cheaper but might not be as cheap if there is good infrastructure there, since everyone is thinking the same thing. You can go to rural areas but infrastructure is abysmal there. Also interest rate is so high right now, like 7%? Insanity.
  • Japan
  • Japan's salary isn't as high. But the salary variance isn't that big. C level executives making 100 times salary of an employee is unheard of. In Japan, seniority matters a lot. It doesn't matter if you have great ideas and great execution. As long as there are still senior up the ladder, you won't get promoted. The young, the newbie must pay its dues until the senior retires or out of the position, and you won't be getting higher salary than your manager. Japanese companies value teamwork, agreeableness, and helping each other, even when you have to stay work late and skip your family dinner. If move to another company, you will be treated like a traitor. The nail that sticks out need to be hammered down. Japan prefer setor muka daripada productivity.
  • Japan has great paid maternal leave. My wife's sister has 3 kids, and got 80% of her salary paid, for 3 years (1 year for 1 kid lol).
  • Japan has great health care. I don't know what the details though, I just heard from my wife it is better than US ones. I do know that me as a foreigner can get a checkup in a Japanese hospital for cheap, probably because of my wife? Idk.
  • Japan has their own government pension plan, and companies do take care their employees retirement as well. Hence why Japanese workers prefer to be in a stable big corporate/zaibatsu style, because they want the company to still exist then they retire. Same like USA, Japanese citizens actually are aware that their birth rate and economy has been in a steady decline, and current Japanese millennials know that the money might not be there anymore. I'm not sure how much money you need to retire just decent in Japan, I heard it is about $500K.
  • Japan's real estate is expensive as well, especially if you compare it to USA, in relative to its salary, it is actually more expensive than USA. However, interest rate is super duper low, like 1% something, and it is not uncommon for people to get very long mortgage, like 40 years. If you want to go to suburb, rural areas, with cheaper real estate, it is still possible due to excellent infrastructure and public transportation, unlike USA. Even my friend who work in a car factory with not so high salary, can afford to get a mortgage.
  • Indonesia
  • Indonesia's salary is just low in general, also not so good benefits. I think this is why a lot of Indonesians prefer to just open their own business if they can. Also I think Indonesians work culture is more sikut-sikutan, but I suppose this varies between industry as well. Indonesia like to setor muka dan non productive lol, but still go home on the clock.
  • I think Indonesia's government healthcare is better than USA. My cousin did a small operation to get rid of two small benign tumor, and it cost like Rp5 jt total. Imagine doing that in the US, and insurance doesn't cover that because it is considered a cosmetic improvement. Edan.
  • Indonesia doesn't have government retirement funds right? And as far as I know Indonesians don't invest in the stock market. Probably property. But again the average Indonesian life expectancy is what? Like 65? Maybe not worth it to think about retirement funds.
  • Indonesia's real estate is pretty much like USA. Expensive, and it is even more expensive if you compare it with Indonesian salary. Going to suburb/rural areas you won't find good infrastructure either, jadi serba salah.
• Government/Politics/Social Issues
  
  • USA
  • Most of us here, whether left leaning or right leaning, don't trust our governments. We already accepted the fact that corporation controlled the media and the government. The media (digital or physical) here is not made to tell the truth, but made to tell people what to think, and made for advertisement. Propagandas are everywhere. Majority of people here are busy just scraping by. They are too busy think about how to live tomorrow paycheck by paycheck. People here don't have the luxury to think and dig deeper. I personally swing left and right year by year. I think the antidote is, as much as possible, try to subscribe to diverse source of media. For example, don't just listen to CNN, but also listen to Fox. Don't just subscribe to /politics but also /conservative. Slowly you'll realize that both sides lie all the damn time. By subscribing to different views, you can see that they expose each other's lies, and you can make up your own mind.
  • The recent crypto craze can be attributed to US citizens' loss of faith in their government. They lose faith in their government's ability to handle fiscal matters, made worse by stimulus checks due to Covid19 lockdown, student loan forgiveness, big corp loan bailout, etc (see the principle "personal responsibility and individual freedom" above).
  • USA has many many many social issues. I guess that comes with its history of diversity, racism, slavery, and bloodshed. Even the early Christian and Catholic settlers killed each other over issue such as child baptism. Personally, I have mixed feelings about diversity and multiculturalism. Diversity and multiculturalism has its benefits but also its cost. For example, it contributes to less societal harmony, less community service, less inclination to unionize, less trust in the government, etc. Various groups of people see other groups of people as obstacles to gain their voice in society.
  • For example, Black animosity against Asians, can be attributed probably to the fact that Asians, despite minority, and despite median (or maybe average) income in cities like NYC are actually lower than Blacks, still are ahead than Blacks in society. Blacks have been struggling to put forward their voice in US society, demand reparations for slavery, for cops killing, etc, only for their narrative potentially be thwarted by model minority narrative, that is, Asians. It threw curveball to the oppressed minority narrative. If minorities are oppressed, why Asians are generally more successful than Blacks, despite Asians came later to the US throughout history.
  • US is the land of extremities, the gap between the haves and not haves are so wide. The gap between the educated and non educated are so wide. The skill gaps between population (high skilled vs low skilled ones) are so wide.
  • It is really hard to govern nation as diverse as the US. One group of people want something, now other group of people want the same thing. If everyone is a protected class, then no one is a protected class. If everyone is special, then no one is special.
  • Lots of firearms. Because to the constitution, but also to the fact that we here don't trust the government. Coupled that with racial/cultural war. Coupled that with high stress environment, highly competitive environment, and expensive healthcare costs, make people go insane.
  • I frankly think US is broken. It is however still strong, but the cracks are deepening year by year. I just don't know when it will implode.

I think Indonesia is like a mini US. If we put a number from 1 to 10 on individualism scale, Japan is scale 1 (very little individualism), US is on scale 10 (really individualist), Indonesia probably on 6.
I don't think US, or Japan, or Indonesia can change or want to change. They are they way they are due to certain conscious tradeoffs that they make, and they are hell bent on keeping those tradeoffs. i.e, Japan probably prefer their island to sink and descend to economical decline than to open their immigration to massive numbers of foreign workers that would result in losing and tainting their culture. US probably prefer their freedom, their low labor protection, their capitalism, their individualism, and any attempt to make it more socialist (left leaning) like Europe will result in massive bloodbath, civil war on the street. Today's US issues are caused by crisis identity. Left leaning people want US to become more like EU, while right leaning people want to keep US as it is. This will result in bloodbath. I personally selfishly want US to be like the way US now, well, because I can earn a lot of money here due to high degree of individualism. If I want more socialist country, I'd move to Japan. But I am aware that I have the benefit of Japan and Indonesia as a fallback mechanism, and a lot of people here don't. It is their land, their life and death situation is determined here.
For a lot of people (by law of average), I suppose Japan/EU are better country to live than the US.
Imagine we can immigrate freely, If someone ask me which country I should immigrate to, I would respond below (despite each country's shortcomings): - USA

• If you are young, highly educated, lots of stamina, really smart, really motivated, nerve of steel, high dose of individualism, tahan banting baik jiwa, raga, pikiran, gak bisa diem, and can work like a machine, then USA is the best country to be in. USA is a giant collosseum. USA will reward you with riches and opportunities. You can have very highly paid job, working in very prestigious and interesting problems, the forefront of technology and science (imagine how close you are actually to be able to work for NASA, or for Space X). You can also create your own business and you are limited only by your creativity. Connections will come to you, money will come to find you. Just focus on outstudy, outwork, outcompete everyone else, and always on the lookout for better jobs, better opportunities.
  
• USA is a country where extremity is rewarded, average is punished.
  
• My personality as chindo medan, fit this type. I didn't get along well with people often when I was in Indonesia.
  
  • Japan
• If you are older, or maybe aren't as motivated, not as energetic, not as tahan banting, don't like competition, don't like moving jobs every year, not as confrontative, agreeable, don't like to constantly learning, but still want stable life in a peaceful, clean, quiet, beautiful country, great healthcare, amazing food, amazing onsen, Japan is a good country to be in. The longer you work in a company, the more you are rewarded. You don't need to be that smart, be that skillful, just be present all the time.
  
• Japan is a country where average is rewarded, extremity is punished.
  
• If you are a hardcore wibu, then yeah Japan ofc regardless. You can be train otaku, mouse otaku, any kind of otaku.
  
• Btw, I think EU also has similar benefit like Japan, with none of the downsides of working under a Japanese work culture. So EU might be a better choice, I don't know though.
  
  • Indonesia
• If you have lots of money, just be in Indonesia. You can buy big houses, with big backyards, 3 mobil, 2 moge, 1 villa di puncak, 1 villa di pantai, employ 5 pembantu, 2 supir, 2 tukang kebun. Siang makan di Bali, malam makan di Raja Ampat, silahkan. Kalau sakit, berobat ke Malaysia. Kalau bosen, ke Australia, ke Singapur, ke Jepang, ke Thailand, dan lebih murah daripada hidup di USA atau di Jepang.
  
• If you are good at entepreneurship, I think Indonesia is also a good place to be in. Indonesia is a developing economy, not so much regulations, lots of opportunities to make money and become really rich.
  

As for me myself, I think:

• USA
  
  • I am here just to make as much money as possible in a short time. I don't think I would want to retire here (too expensive, too unsafe, healthcare is abysmal), or create a business here. I am also concerned about living cost and my future kids education. My idea of retirement is not idling, but still working, doing something, so I do want to keep my access of highly smart and capable people (I learned a lot from many many smart people here, more than I learned in school). I also want my kids to have US college education (but not the high school).
• Japan
  
  • Peaceful, quiet, beautiful country. Kids education will be good. Healthcare is amazing, salary not as big as USA, but labor law is strong. I might rot here though, might be content, might lose my edge, but I don't have to compete anymore. Competing all the time is tiring.
• Indonesia
  
  • I think if I have more money, and more technical/business skill, more connection, I can have more impact in Indonesia. My money and skill can go further in Indonesia, and there is a certain satisfaction to be able to build and contribute to your own country.

I'm not sure. If my future kids have 3 citizenships, and I have Indo citizenship, and my wife have Japanese citizenship, and the fact that Indo and Japan don't allow dual citizenship, we need to think really really hard, otherwise we will be separated as a family. Paradox of choice. I still don't want to let go of Indo citizenship. Let me know if you have any suggestions.
So, which country do you prefer? Maybe none of them, that's okay lol. Let me know in the comments.

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• Daftar psikolog di puskesmas kecamatan DKI Jakarta.
• Yayasan Pulih: 021-788-42580. Appointment via WhatsApp at 081-184-36633. Link Instagram untuk informasi terupdate
• SADARI (link to website). Available for online counseling during quarantine.
• Save Yourselves: Line u/vol7047h
• LSM Jangan Bunuh Diri: 021-9696 9293 / [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
• Into The Light: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
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Saya sekarang kerja sebagain Engineering Manager untuk sebuah perusahan tech di Bay Area, basically daerah sekitar San Francisco, mencakup Silicon Valley juga. Beberapa bulan lalu saya ikut acara career counseling himpunan professional Indonesia NY (IPA-NY). Audiencenya waktu itu banyak mahasiswa yang ingin tahu langkah2 apa aja yang bisa diambil untuk mulai kerja di US. With the same spirit, saya pengen bikin forum juga disini, khususnya untuk redditor2 yang aspiring untuk kerja di US dan masih mahasiswa.
To set the stage, penting disadari bahwa everyone starts at a different point in life. Dan disinilah aspek “privilege” akan muncul. Apakah terlahir di keluarga kaya (bisa kuliah dibayarin orangtua ke luar negri kaya Australia / US / Eropa) membantu? Tentu jawabannya iya. Jalur lain adalah dengan memiliki tingkat intelektual yang tinggi alias pintar (contoh: anak2 beasiswa). Kalau bukan datang dari keluarga kaya atau anak pintar sekali, apakah masih mungkin kerja ke luar negri? Mungkin! Menurut saya ada 2 aspek.
Yang pertama skill teknikal. Maaf, tapi skill marketing atau management itu sulit sekali untuk menembus tingkat luar negri, apalagi ketika baru mulai, dan modal dengan ijazah S1 dalam negeri. Skill teknikal itu seperti apa? Software engineering, teknik mesin, perminyakan, dll. Karena background saya software engineering, mungkin deskripsi agak condong ke arah sana. Apakah saya harus menjadi yang paling pintar di bidang itu? Menurut saya tidak. Yg penting “good enough”
“Good enough” itu berbeda dengan mediocre. “Good enough” itu adalah bisa dengan konsisten mengerjakan sesuatu dengan hasil memuaskan, tapi tidak mesti “perfect”. Kalau ujian, cukup dengan nilai 80, daripada 90 atau 100. Mediocre itu 65. Kalau SMA, “good enough” itu ranking 10-9-8 (ranking saya dulu :p). Dengan menaruh effort tidak berlebih ke technical performance, kalian harusnya bisa mengembangkan diri ke aspek lain seperti bergaul.
SMA dan kuliah itu tidak hanya belajar, tapi juga belajar bergaul. Bagaimana berbicara sama orang, belajar berempati dan menyampaikan ide. Sekolah dan universitas itu tempat paling gampang untuk bergaul, karena kalian dikelilingi orang2 sebaya.
Skill kedua adalah bahasa inggris conversational. Banyak orang pintar di Indonesia tapi penguasaan bahasa inggris masih kurang; di panggung internasional kepintaran mereka bisa tertutupi karena kurang bisa menyampaikan ide dan suara mereka.
Saya SMA di Jakarta. Hobi main game RPG, jadi dari dulu sudah biasa baca text bahasa inggris banyak2. Kalau saya baca buku waktu SMA, selalu baca buku bahasa inggris dan saya baca lantang2. Kalau nonton film sendiri, saya suka ngulang karakter2 di filmnya ngomong apa.
Kuliah saya dibayari orang tua untuk kuliah IT di Malaysia (privilege). Skill terbesar yang saya pick up adalah bukan materi belajarnya, tapi penggunaan bahasa inggris sehari2 (kalau pakai bahasa melayu malah bingung).
Lulus kuliah saya sempat coba apply kerja di Malaysia tapi tidak dapat, dan visa sudah habis jadi saya pulang ke Jakarta. Di Jakarta saya apply kerjaan dari internet dan koran (ngga pakai koneksi). Salah satu kantor yang saya apply adalah sebuah perusahaan Singapura.
Saya sangat merekomendasikan Singapura sebagai batu loncatan karir luar negeri kalian. Bila mencari kerja di US / UK / Oz itu sulit, Singapura biasanya lebih realistis. Bagaimana caranya? Bisa dimulai dari Jakarta. Cari perusahaan Singapura yang punya cabang di Jakarta.
Saya dipindah ke SG dan pindah ke bbrp perusahaan lain sampai saya pindah ke Visa Inc. (perusahaan credit card saingan Mastercard). Saya dapat posisi tersebut melalui networking: datang ke bermacam2 developer meetup, sign-up komunitas programmer SG online dan aktif disitu.
Salah satu membernya sedang membangun tim di Visa dan tanya apakah saya tertarik. Saya lalu interview dan diterima.
Lalu ada kesempatan untuk dipindah tugaskan ke US, saya bilang ke bos besar saya, bahwa saya tertarik. Saya tunjukan bahwa saya reliable dan bisa membawa value ke perusahaan (“good enough” + communicate well). Akhirnya saya di pindahkan ke US setelah 5.5 tahun di SG, dr 2015.
To recap: ngga mesti super pintar dan terlahir kaya. Perlu menguasai bidang teknikal and be good enough at it. Bahasa inggris conversational, practice, practice, and practice. Cari perusahaan multi-national di Jakarta.
Kalau diterima, mulai cari2 celah untuk di transfer ke luar. Tanya bos bagaimana caranya. Transfer ke Singapura biasanya lebih mudah daripada transfer ke negara barat.
Dari Singapura mungkin bisa mencari kesempata transfer ke negara barat. Networking: aktif di kegiatan2 komunitas teknikal kalian untuk cari lowongan pekerjaan dan juga showcase compentency kalian.
Sekian sharing pengalaman saya, AMA!
Edit: BTW feel free to follow me on TwitteLinkedIn. However, if you've found me on IG, that account is private yak, I won't approve unless we are friends in real life 😬
Edit Oct 27th 11.40 PM PST: folks gue mau tidur dulu ya, besok gue lanjutin sehari lagi AMA nya lol I'll also reply those that I haven't got around to answer.

I dont defend this douche guy, he deserve it for being an @sshole.
Tapi ada yang punya kronologi jelasnya dia sebenarnya ngapain sebagai affliator binomo? Gua cari di berita isinya di luar konteks dan isinya "diduga" dan ga jelasin kronologi urutannya sampe urusan pacarnya segala.
Ada yang bilang dia sebagai affliator meraup uang loss pemainnya. Gua ga ngerti soal app binomo tapi apa itu hasil loss bisa connect ke "kantong" dia? Apa dia jadi agen perantara ketiga macam judi bola?
Does binomo even legal? I mean its legal in India. Dan konsepnya nyambung ke forex kan?
Gua cuman pengen tahu aja ginian, bahkan telegram grup mayoritas kalangan "investor" begitu kan disangka tempat chat teroris dulu kan dan terus disuruh uninstall. I have trust issues because massive of propraganda we are facing rn.

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Thank you for sharing your stories on the previous rant thread. You guys are awesome and so brave for sharing your problems. Now let's do it again.
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Here, here, let it all out. Tell us everything, set your worries free. We're here to share and to listen. Use a throwaway account if you need one. Let it all out, don't leave a mess in your head. Tomorrow morning, you'll wake up feeling fresh and grateful, so you can celebrate your days with a bright smile and positivity.
If you need peer support or help from the professionals:

• Subreddit kesehatan mental dan mental health support pedulijiwa
• Feel free to ping u/Juntis in the comment section (this user is a verified professional psychologist)
• Hotline Official layanan kesehatan jiwa pemerintah: 119 ext 8
• Daftar Penyedia Layanan Kesehatan Mental by Into the Light (format PDF -- last updated December 2019)
• Daftar psikolog di puskesmas kecamatan DKI Jakarta.
• Yayasan Pulih: 021-788-42580. Appointment via WhatsApp at 081-184-36633. Link Instagram untuk informasi terupdate
• SADARI (link to website). Available for online counseling during quarantine.
• Save Yourselves: Line u/vol7047h
• LSM Jangan Bunuh Diri: 021-9696 9293 / [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
• Into The Light: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
• Into the Light Suicide Prevention Team: Jakarta area - Bibi +6281287877479 / Bondhan +6281290704035 / Sabilah +6281285651224. Jawa Barat - Diva +6285776477960 / Lele +6287785095125. Jawa Tengah - Arin +6281291081619. Jawa Timur - Singa +6281280738113 / Ayy +6285711951292 / Aufa +6281212798324.
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Gak bisa dipungkiri sepanjang tahun 2020-2021 banyak orang memulai investasinya karena influence sosial media. Beruntung bagi yang memulai investasinya lebih awal dan agak celaka bagi yang mulai investasinya di akhir-akhir tanpa tau konsekuensinya. Banyak kasus orang beli saham pake pinjol. Beli BTC, Altcoin pake utangan, uang arisan, bahkan sumbangan gereja.
my advice for you yang kena FOMO:
Miner musiman: Ketika crypto turun drastis di Januari-Februari 2022. Segera jual alat miningmu karena kamu harus menunggu 2024 untuk bisa panen. Karena ketika kamu beli mining rig sekarang harganya sudah naik berkali-kali lipat dari harga wajarnya. Perhitungkan kembali listrik yang harus kamu keluarkan, Gak BEP istilahnya. Contoh nyata Founder Rekeningku yang boncos bertahun-tahun karena nutupin biaya listrik dan beli mining rig kemahalan, baru panen akhir2 ini.
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Robot trading: Royal Q , Forex dll. Robot trading is scam, jauhi sekarang sebelum terlambat. Janji manis seller Royal Q dan robot forex profit konisten itu gak ada buktinya 100% scam. Kisah nyata banyak yg bunuh diri karena tiba-tiba assetnya hilang diaveraging oleh robot. Jangan sampai kamu jadi korbannya
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Trader Binomo, Binary option: Kamu yang baru memulai binary option, inilah saatnya dirimu keluar dari sistem jahat Judi 2.0 mungkin diawal kamu akan merasakan profit namun lama kelamaan akan susah dan tiba-tiba akun tersuspen tanpa sebab. Jelakanya gak ada yg bisa jamin akunmu balik karena Binomo dan lainnya jelas ilegal di Indonesia sehingga penyedia layanan tidak diketahui siapa.
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Trader Saham musiman via signal telegram : Saham ada bull market dan bearish market, lengkapi dirimu dengan FA dan TA tambah bandarmology juga. Investing stock is about your move, bukan orang lain. Jadi pastikan semua keputusan investasi kamu yang buat bukan orang lain.
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Trader Crypto: Bear market is coming, we need to understand what crypto still alive for next 4 Years(next halving) DCA still the best strategy for you. We will face the second Bull Run but dont fall for it to much, cause second bull run means next winter season.
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note: I hope yall getting more profit and healthy. May the Force be with you

This special thread series was originally maintained by u/mbok_jamu, since the scheduled post feature is now available on Reddit I will take over this monthly series - Vulcan
Thank you for sharing your stories on the previous rant thread. You guys are awesome and so brave for sharing your problems. Now let's do it again.
Is there something that makes you sad, angry, or stressed out? Do you want to cry or express your emotions, but you have no one to talk to?
Here, here, let it all out. Tell us everything, set your worries free. We're here to share and to listen. Use a throwaway account if you need one. Let it all out, don't leave a mess in your head. Tomorrow morning, you'll wake up feeling fresh and grateful, so you can celebrate your days with a bright smile and positivity.
If you need peer support or help from the professionals:

• Subreddit kesehatan mental dan mental health support pedulijiwa
• Feel free to ping u/Juntis in the comment section (this user is a verified professional psychologist)
• Hotline Official layanan kesehatan jiwa pemerintah: 119 ext 8
• Daftar Penyedia Layanan Kesehatan Mental by Into the Light (format PDF -- last updated December 2019)
• Daftar psikolog di puskesmas kecamatan DKI Jakarta.
• Yayasan Pulih: 021-788-42580. Appointment via WhatsApp at 081-184-36633. Link Instagram untuk informasi terupdate
• SADARI (link to website). Available for online counseling during quarantine.
• Save Yourselves: Line u/vol7047h
• LSM Jangan Bunuh Diri: 021-9696 9293 / [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
• Into The Light: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
• Into the Light Suicide Prevention Team: Jakarta area - Bibi +6281287877479 / Bondhan +6281290704035 / Sabilah +6281285651224. Jawa Barat - Diva +6285776477960 / Lele +6287785095125. Jawa Tengah - Arin +6281291081619. Jawa Timur - Singa +6281280738113 / Ayy +6285711951292 / Aufa +6281212798324.
• WYSA, a mental health chatbot

PS: If the information listed above is outdated or not accurate, feel free to contact the moderator team via modmail.

This special thread series was originally maintained by u/mbok_jamu, since the scheduled post feature is now available on Reddit I will take over this monthly series - Vulcan
Thank you for sharing your stories on the previous rant thread. You guys are awesome and so brave for sharing your problems. Now let's do it again.
Is there something that makes you sad, angry, or stressed out? Do you want to cry or express your emotions, but you have no one to talk to?
Here, here, let it all out. Tell us everything, set your worries free. We're here to share and to listen. Use a throwaway account if you need one. Let it all out, don't leave a mess in your head. Tomorrow morning, you'll wake up feeling fresh and grateful, so you can celebrate your days with a bright smile and positivity.
If you need peer support or help from the professionals:

• Subreddit kesehatan mental dan mental health support pedulijiwa
• Feel free to ping u/Juntis in the comment section (this user is a verified professional psychologist)
• Hotline Official layanan kesehatan jiwa pemerintah: 119 ext 8
• Daftar Penyedia Layanan Kesehatan Mental by Into the Light (format PDF -- last updated December 2019)
• Daftar psikolog di puskesmas kecamatan DKI Jakarta.
• Yayasan Pulih: 021-788-42580. Appointment via WhatsApp at 081-184-36633. Link Instagram untuk informasi terupdate
• SADARI (link to website). Available for online counseling during quarantine.
• Save Yourselves: Line u/vol7047h
• LSM Jangan Bunuh Diri: 021-9696 9293 / [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
• Into The Light: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
• Into the Light Suicide Prevention Team: Jakarta area - Bibi +6281287877479 / Bondhan +6281290704035 / Sabilah +6281285651224. Jawa Barat - Diva +6285776477960 / Lele +6287785095125. Jawa Tengah - Arin +6281291081619. Jawa Timur - Singa +6281280738113 / Ayy +6285711951292 / Aufa +6281212798324.
• WYSA, a mental health chatbot

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Thank you for sharing your stories on the previous rant thread. You guys are awesome and so brave for sharing your problems. Now let's do it again.
Is there something that makes you sad, angry, or stressed out? Do you want to cry or express your emotions, but you have no one to talk to?
Here, here, let it all out. Tell us everything, set your worries free. We're here to share and to listen. Use a throwaway account if you need one. Let it all out, don't leave a mess in your head. Tomorrow morning, you'll wake up feeling fresh and grateful, so you can celebrate your days with a bright smile and positivity.
If you need peer support or help from the professionals:

• Subreddit kesehatan mental dan mental health support pedulijiwa
• Feel free to ping u/Juntis in the comment section (this user is a verified professional psychologist)
• Hotline Official layanan kesehatan jiwa pemerintah: 119 ext 8
• Daftar Penyedia Layanan Kesehatan Mental by Into the Light (format PDF -- last updated December 2019)
• Daftar psikolog di puskesmas kecamatan DKI Jakarta.
• Yayasan Pulih: 021-788-42580. Appointment via WhatsApp at 081-184-36633. Link Instagram untuk informasi terupdate
• SADARI (link to website). Available for online counseling during quarantine.
• Save Yourselves: Line u/vol7047h
• LSM Jangan Bunuh Diri: 021-9696 9293 / [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
• Into The Light: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
• Into the Light Suicide Prevention Team: Jakarta area - Bibi +6281287877479 / Bondhan +6281290704035 / Sabilah +6281285651224. Jawa Barat - Diva +6285776477960 / Lele +6287785095125. Jawa Tengah - Arin +6281291081619. Jawa Timur - Singa +6281280738113 / Ayy +6285711951292 / Aufa +6281212798324.
• WYSA, a mental health chatbot

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Long wall of text. On mobile. Tldr: Jangan lewat Pekalongan kalo mo ke Dieng.
Went for a road trip with family on my little Suzuki Swift. Left Jakarta on the 17th and spent the night in Pekalongan my in-laws. I already told my in-laws that we should leave at around 3 as I don’t like the idea of driving in the dark on unfamiliar roads. Of course, we only left Pekalongan at 16:30. Why wouldn’t we? Its not like I haven’t told them multiple times that we need to go. But they insists on stopping at a few places.
Google map lead the way, lewat tempat namanya Bandar. The route looks promising at first. Banyak cafe, bahkan ada kampus Undip. Trus jalanan mulai berliku-liku naik turun. Gw pikir, ah ya sudah lah. Lalu jalanan mulai gelap. Masih ada motor satu-dua. Ada mobil pickup di depan. So I guess we’re still good.
Lalu jalanan mulai ancur. Yang tadinya gw bisa di gigi 2, mau ga mau sering di gigi 1. The engine stalled from time to time. The only source of light is our car. After a grueling 15km of messed up road, we saw civilization. Kita tanya dong, is this the right way? Iya, nanti belok kiri then pertigaan belok kanan. Jalanannya bagus kok.
We followed the guide, super dark, we saw what we think was a fork on the road tapi ga yakin so we decided to follow through. Akhirnya nyampe desa Gerlang. Google map tried to guide us, but that’s a dead end. Akhirnya puter balik dan nanya penduduk.
Google map was right-ish. It used to be the regular route, tapi jalanannya udah ditutup karena sering longsor. So I gave up, numpang sholat dlu, catching my breath. Hampir jam 7 malam. We have a tour guide that we’ve went with before. But he was an hour away from where we were lost. But he said he’ll come and pick us up.
Gw parkir mobil di depan rumah warga eh tuan rumahnya pulang n nanya “lagi nunggu siapa pak?”Gw bilang gw nyasar. Dia tunjukin jalannya tapi gw dah terlalu cape untuk nyoba lagi. Not without a guide. Dia tawarin diri untuk guide pake motornya. He picked up his buddy And so we set off. We told our tour guide that we got a local guide and lets try to meet halfway in pasar Batur.
Our local guides suggested a quicker route and we agreed. More twists and turns tapi jalanannya lumayan bagus and gradually became smooth asphalt. These two guys took us all the way to our hostel. They were a godsend. Checked in at our hostel at 8pm. I slipped him some cash and he rejected. I had to force him to accept it. Ga kebayang gw kalo gw masi terdampar di antah berantah.
This wasn’t my first time driving to Dieng. But the previous route was through Wonosobo. Much easier route but much longer. We’re going to take that route home

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Ketika membuat subreddit ini, salah satu harapan saya adalah agar suatu saat bisa bareng-bareng pesan teh dari Jepang/China, agar ongkirnya bisa dibagi-bagi. Lama-lama saya menyadari hal ini mungkin sulit ya terkait trust dan distribusinya setelah barang sampai.
Karena sudah setahunan kepikiran pingin mencoba matcha dan sencha yang direkomendasikan tea (dari Sazen atau Ippodo), saya memutuskan untuk memesan dari Sazen. Nah saya ingin berbagi ke sini karena ada beberapa hal yang saya harap saya ketahui lebih awal.
Beberapa hal yang saya pelajari dari belanja ini: - Bagi yang tidak punya kartu kredit dan Paypal, bisa menggunakan virtual card number (VCN) (saya taunya dari BNI, ada biaya admin Rp1500 dan entah ada pajak atau apa beda 10rb dengan kurs). - Di Sazen pengirimannya hanya DHL atau FedEx. Lebih murah DHL sih, tapi nanti saat di Indonesia ada tambahan "processing fees" yang harus dibayar bersama bea masuk dan pajak barang. - Jangan lupa cantumkan NPWP! Seingat saya ada kolomnya untuk info tambahan. Kalau lupa dianggap tidak punya NPWP dan pajaknya jadi 20% (harusnya 10%). Kalau lupa telpon pihak kurirnya ya. - Di Sazen ada top 3 best seller jadi bisa mulai dari mesan yang itu. Bisa juga tanya-tanya di tea ya
Berikut ini kronologisnya 1. Minggu: Saya memesan Matcha Wako, Matcha Aoarashi, dan Sencha Seiga. Total yang saya bayar dengan VCN jadi 800rb (termasuk ongkir 250rban). Saya menggunakan DHL.

1. Selasa: barang selesai disiapkan dan dikirim dari Jepang, dengan perkiraan sampai hari Senin. Saya lupa NPWP jadi saya telpon DHL, dan NPWP saya kirimkan lewat email. (Meskipun sudah saya kirim, ada email lagi yang meminta. Jadi masih bingung juga apakah memang perlu dicantumkan di awal atau memang pada akhirnya pasti diminta lagi bukti NPWPnya).
   
2. Kamis: sampai di Jakarta
   
3. Jum'at: sampai di kota saya
   
4. Minggu: karena belum dihubungi, saya telpon saja minta tagihan (bea masuk, pajak, processing fee). Bea masuk dan pajak jadi 110rb, terus ditambah processing fees DHL lagi jadi total 274rb.. Total uang keluar 1,1 jtan..
   
5. Senin: karena Sabtu hari libur, dan Minggu DHL libur, barulah sampai di rumah Senin siang. Saya berencana habisin satu per satu, sementara yang lain disimpan di kulkas.
   

Overall cukup puas dengan Sazen Tea, packagingnya bagus, dapat bonus 10g Sencha Tongu Asatsuyu juga, dan tentu tehnya berkualitas. Untuk DHL ya netral lah, memang cepat sampai, tapi menyayangkan "hidden fees" yang sebaiknya sudah diinclude di pembayaran awal.
Terakhir, menurut saya ternyata teh Jepang yang tersedia di Indonesia sudah cukup oke, tapi memang harus merasakan langsung yang dari Jepang biar percaya wkwk. Selain itu, kalau impor teh dalam jumlah kecil jadi sayang di biaya ongkir, sedangkan kalau beli kebanyakan juga takut rusak karena kelamaan disimpan.. Kesimpulannya: kita harus merasa cukup.